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Living Your Best Life

We recently just lost one of the greatest performers of all times Ms. Whitney Houston.  Her death for me is another testiment to what we should value most in this life.  As many of us are all on the pursuit of some level of success which will bring riches, fame and material items and we […]

Being Black in February

February is Black History Month.  A memorial and remembrance to raise social consciousness of the advances and struggles of being american during a time of revolution for african americans.  A time of acknowledgement of those who have paved the way for the privileges that we are afforded in this day and time.  A time to […]

The Language of Love

The language of love can be complicated for even the most intellectual of people.  There is no right answer or specific way to love.  Love is expressed in many different ways.  Depending on the circumstances of your lifestyle it can be very challenging to express love.  Love is one the strongest emotions that we have […]

How to Love Her When She’s a Powerhouse…..

Gone are the days when men brought home the bacon and she fried it up.  Today’s woman is a force to be reckoned with and many women can hold their own in every facet of life.   Recently a friend of mine’s told me I needed a male version of myself, which I laughed at because […]

Sugar Daddy – Why younger women are attracted to older men?

Why are younger women attracted to older men? The Sugar Daddy is a nickname for an older man who dates younger women.  I’ve  gone to plenty of waiting to exhale events where at least one of the girls are in this dating status.  At first, I used to think who wants to date someone as […]

Getting to your Happy Place…

The pursuit of happiness comes in all different forms and depending on who you are and where you’re at in your life happiness takes a different meaning for all of us. The type of happiness that I am talking about for the sake of shortening this article is the kind of happiness you find within […]

You work and he doesn’t? What now?

It’s 6a.m. and you’re up brushing your teeth, putting on your makeup and getting dressed and ready to go out the door for an 8 to 10 hour work day.  He’s taking his first yawn of the morning and rolls over to brush you with an early morning kiss on the cheek to send you […]

Is it ever ok for a friend to date your Ex?

This question was posed to me by a man who didn’t understand why this is such a taboo issue.  His stand is that if you have moved on to someone else and it’s been years since you and he have dated and he decides to date one of your friends or you decide to date […]

Oh what a web we weave, when we practice to decieve?

Let’s face it lying has gotten easier.  People lie on their resumes, lie about their age, lie about how much money they make,  the list of  the lies we tell is endless.  But now in this new game with the internet and what I like to call megabot cells phones, I refer to cell phones […]

What She Really Wants in the Bedroom?

Men are from  Mars and women are from Venus?  Needless to say both sexes can be challenged in figuring out what makes the other tick.  Men are just as emotional as women they just hide it better.  It might surprise men and women that most of us are not even touching the surface of what […]